The Fun Guide to Japanese Etiquette and Cultural Manners

Tokyo is a dazzling city where ancient traditions seamlessly blend with futuristic vibes, and it's all waiting for you to dive in headfirst! But before you start zipping around Shibuya's neon jungle or chilling in serene temples, it's a good idea to brush up on some of Japan's cultural quirks. 

Food Etiquette: Savor Every Bite Like a Local

First things first: Japanese food is a serious art form. Whether you're slurping down a bowl of ramen or picking up sushi with chopsticks, there are a few things to keep in mind. Before you dig in, say "itadakimasu" (think of it as a foodie's way of saying, "Let's eat!"). It's a small gesture, but it shows you're ready to appreciate the deliciousness in front of you.

Now, about those chopsticks. You've probably heard the basics, but let's level up your skills. Never, and I mean never, stick them upright in your rice—that's reserved for funerals and will definitely give off the wrong vibe at the dinner table. And if you're sharing dishes, flip your chopsticks around and use the opposite end to grab some food. It's all about keeping things clean and classy.

Here's a fun one: slurping your noodles isn't just okay; it's encouraged! The louder, the better—it's a way to show you're loving that ramen. But keep the slurping to the brothy stuff; pasta is a different story, so no spaghetti-sucking here.

Tip: To use your newly learned skills, here’s our guide to the must-eat spots in Tokyo!

Street Etiquette: Keep It Cool, Tokyo Style

Tokyo's streets can feel like an organized whirlwind—there's so much to see and do, but the locals have this unspoken rule about keeping things tidy. For starters, you won't see many people munching on the go. Eating while walking is a bit of a faux pas, so find a bench or a cozy corner to enjoy your snacks. Trust me, it's way more relaxing.

And where do you toss that snack wrapper when you're done? That's the tricky part—public trash cans are few and far between. The solution? Carry your rubbish with you until you find a bin. It's part of the city's clean and green vibe.

Speaking of walking, Tokyoites are masters of the escalator. Stand on the left side and let people pass on the right. It's a smooth system that keeps things moving, and you'll feel like a pro once you get the hang of it.

And here's a golden rule: don't go chasing geishas (or maiko) for selfies. They're busy, and stopping them for a photo op is a big no-no. Admire their grace from afar, and you'll still get that Instagram-worthy moment without stepping on any toes.

Public Transport Etiquette: Ride Like a Pro

Tokyo's public transport is a dream—punctual, clean, and quiet. And I mean really quiet. Chatting loudly on your phone or with your friends? Not here. Keep conversations low-key, and if you need to make a call, try to wait until you're off the train. If you've got the sniffles, do as the locals do and wear a mask—it's all about being considerate to those around you.

During rush hour, the trains can get packed. If you're lucky enough to snag a seat, keep your bag on your lap or in front of you to save space. The last thing you want is to knock someone over with an oversized backpack!

Tip: Here’s our guide to public transport in Tokyo to make sure you don’t get lost while focusing on your etiquette skills!

Social Etiquette: Bow Down (Literally)

In Japan, a simple bow can say it all—"hello," "thank you," "sorry," and more. Don't stress about the perfect angle or length; just a small bow will do the trick. It's the effort that counts, and locals will appreciate you trying to get it right.

If you're exchanging business cards or gifts, here's a tip: always use both hands. It's a sign of respect, and taking a moment to admire what you've been handed shows you care. Plus, it's a nice way to slow down and enjoy the exchange.

Onsen Etiquette: Get Ready to Soak

Nothing says relaxation like a dip in a traditional Japanese onsen (hot spring). But before you jump in, there are a few things to keep in mind. First up: cleanliness is king. Wash up thoroughly before entering the communal baths. This isn't just a splash of water—scrub-a-dub-dub until you're squeaky clean.

Tattoos? They're still a bit of a taboo in some onsens due to their association with the Yakuza (Japanese mafia). Some places are more relaxed about it, but it's always good to check the policy beforehand.

Once you're in the onsen, soak in the tranquility. Keep conversations hushed, and definitely no photos—it's all about unwinding without distractions. And don't worry about going au naturel; everyone's in the same boat, so just relax and enjoy the experience.

Cultural Nuances: The Art of Subtlety

Japanese communication can be wonderfully subtle. You might not always get a straightforward "yes" or "no," so keep an eye on body language and tone. It's all about reading between the lines. And while modesty is the norm, don't be afraid to share your thoughts—just do it with a dash of humility.

Apologizing is a big deal here, too. Whether it's for bumping into someone or a bigger mistake, a quick "sumimasen" (excuse me) goes a long way. And if you're really feeling sorry, a small gift might be in order—just something simple to show you care.

All of this information is great to have, but if you're looking for an immersive experience, our Kickstart Tokyo experience is the best way to learn on the go. And the best part? You'll have a local by your side showing you the way. No more embarrassing moments in restaurants!